Dr. Clarence (a.k.a The Love Doctor) and Brenda are parents to three adult daughters (he’s the minority in their sorority), author, diversity consultant, relationship counselor, speaker, and life & relationship coach.

He is the President/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships. For nearly 38 years, Clarence and Brenda have conducted marriage, discipleship, men’s, women’s, and single seminars internationally. In 2020, they received FamilyLife’s Speakers of the Year Award for the Weekend To Remember Marriage Getaway Speaker Team. Clarence speaks to youth, college students and singles about friendships, dating, biblical sex, pornography and sexting. They are certified in Marriage Education for Professional Training. As a Life & Relationship Coach, Clarence helps executives effectively manage their personal and professional lives, finding fulfillment in both. He speaks with Dr. Gary Chapman at his Date Night,The Five Love Languages Marriage and Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendship events. They co-authored, Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships: How You Can Help Heal Racial Divides, One Relationship at a Time.

His Maximizing Difference (diversity) training is in constant demand.

Clarence has been a Keynote speaker for Iron Sharpens Iron and National Football League chapels. 

He’s authored ten books. His newest book is Finding Hope in a Dark Place: Facing Loneliness, Depression and Anxiety with the Power of Grace. 

Brenda is a gifted national speaker and counselor.

As the Manager over Bridges of Hope & Client Care for Life Network, a post-abortion ministry to men and women, she helps them to heal from the pain of their past. Brenda is a former teacher for a Colorado Springs citywide women’s Bible Study. She’s the Executive Administrator for BLR: Building Lasting Relationships.

Veterans of the pastorate, educational services, a variety of non-profit and corporate consulting; they have three adult daughters and reside in Colorado Springs, CO.

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